Have you ever been in a relationship where there is no way out? Relationships that, like a spider’s web, cover and lead you into a dead end; “suffocate” you with their “density” and “coverage”. You have been vaguely trying to find a way out. But each exit is always an entrance, only into another format of the same relationship. If this is in your life, you are in a “labyrinthine relationship”.
What is inherent in a “labyrinth relationship”? It started vague but romantic! You experienced the mystery and mystery of your companion, who after a while will become desirable, then necessary and, increasingly, in the end – part of you.
Then you start to feel a kind of “cocktail” somewhere very deep down. It is a mix of passion, sadness, and an uncontrollable desire to be with him forever. Over time, there will be a deep disappointment, not in him, but in yourself. It is at this point that it seems to be over.
After all, if you are disappointed in yourself in a relationship, by nature laws, you should stop and run. But no! Then comes the most exciting part – the labyrinth! There is no feeling in it any more. You cannot feel sadness. This relationship is not lost in any way. And there is no joy either because the relationship is so suffocating that it resembles dying rather than living. You are hustling. You are trying to save without recognizing that you are alone in this maze of relationships. And, here, you should be scared and walk away! But no, now you are so “pregnant” with this relationship that you, like a fetus mother, try to keep the “fetus” alive at any price. You don’t see you are a single mother in this “relationship maze. You become exhausted and start frantically looking for support, but what kind? You look for someone to convince you that the labyrinth is exactly what you need.
The emergence of that conviction is the point of no return. Now the relationship labyrinth becomes the only model of yourself. Moreover, it does not matter if we are talking about relationships in love, at work or with loved ones. There is a certain doominess about it. After all, a labyrinthine relationship is one in which you look for someone who will confirm your fears of not finding what you want and, if found, urgently eliminated. Therefore, it turns out that it’s easier to live with someone you don’t like, cooperate with someone who steals, be friends with someone who betrays…
It turns out that it is advantageous to live in a labyrinth! After all, a relationship without a labyrinth is loneliness, in which, by finding yourself, you give yourself a chance to appear to someone near, not in you. Therefore, it turns out that getting out of the labyrinth is an entrance to yourself. In addition, if you have not been there in a while… it is hard.
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